It is possible to determine a partner's readiness for intimacy not only from the condition of his penis. An erection is not always visible, but it is often important for a woman to know what she likes. It is easy to understand that a person is easily aroused by other often less direct signs.
Nonverbal cues
Willingly or not, the man through external manifestations of behavior and reactions of the body shows his interest in an object of the opposite sex. Non-verbal messages from the partner will help to understand his condition and readiness for sexual intercourse. Often the repetition of actions speaks of his desire. This "mirror reflection" is a clear symptom of passion and desire for a closer relationship.
When communicating, a person who is obsessed with passion will try to get closer, to reduce the distance to the object of desire, and this action is performed automatically without realizing it. In addition, he will try to touch the woman with his hand or foot, to make physical contact, but this does not mean that the excited partner will develop an offensive without following the rules of decency.
The contact will be quite casual, light, without mania, but the excitement that the man feels during such contact is clearly felt. The woman understands that this behavior is not accidental, seeing the persistence and some nervousness of human behavior.
It is also important to register external manifestations in a man's behavior. In a moment of excitement, he tries to straighten his shoulders, pull his stomach, present his figure in a favorable light. Often, due to excitement, the partner begins to lick his lips, grab his chin, nose or ears with his fingers, which is also typical for women.
Signs of arousal in a man, manifested nonverbally, can be reduced to a small list of characteristics of his behavior:
- an excited man tries to please a woman - to move a chair, to open a door, to help carry something or to serve;
- it seeks to reduce the distance in communication;
- during a conversation the man tries to make light bodily contact;
- a man burning with passion for a woman does his best to be alone with her more often.
Poses of a man
The need to show sexual attraction in an implicit way is born in the era of strict rules and regulations, when the attitude to the intimate process is taboo by moral codes and church standards. Both the man and the woman had to demonstrate to their partner a willingness to take action without fear of publicity or public condemnation. In such cases, non-verbal cues provided an opportunity to learn about likes and desires.
To want a woman and not show her is wrong, from the point of view of a normal man. Therefore, the potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to demonstrate to the object of desire his interest through sexual gestures and postures.
The man shows most gestures and poses on a reflex level, without realizing his sexual orientation towards the woman. Some of them clearly show interest, others are more hidden and are read only by a girl who is ready for contact.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he inadvertently begins to issue "alpha male". He indicates readiness for sexual intercourse with confident postures and showing a high tone of the physical condition of his own body. This is usually observed in the following manifestations:
- the man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders;
- trying to pull in the stomach deeper;
- if the man is standing, his legs are shoulder-width apart, showing a special stability and strong position;
- it is also important to trace the position of the socks of men's shoes, if he is interested in any attractive man, then they will be directed to this woman;
- if a man sits in a chair, he will inadvertently spread his legs, thus, as if demonstrating his own genitals, ready for mating.
The involuntary postures and gestures of a man who wants to conquer a woman he likes often resemble the behavior of male monkeys during games of digging and mating, which shows the common roots of primates and humans.
The excited man begins to straighten his clothes and hair, hoping to attract the woman's attention with his appearance. Instead of an angular and heavy gait, he moves quickly, like an athlete, while correcting the shortcomings of the figure, standing up and removing his stomach. The eyes glow, the facial skin automatically tightens and the bags under the eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and really more desirable for a friend.
Such a gesture is now rarely used, and many have forgotten about it, but even fifty years ago, the thumbs behind the belt of a trouser signified a rude, ostentatious act toward a woman aimed at showing off their own genitals.
Delaying a man's gaze on the object of his lust says a lot. When he looks a woman in the eye for a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, it shows his excitement and desire for closer contact.
The position of the hands on the thighs shows the woman the physical superiority of the man over other rivals, his strength and power and therefore his readiness to reproduce.
Interestingly, women are more sensitive to the manifestations of male attention and quickly notice all the tricks of a possible partner, while a man may not understand for a long time the sympathy shown by the girl.
Physical manifestations
The state of arousal in men is manifested not only by an erection of the penis, but also by other, often less obvious, physiological signs.
A man, subject to passion, often straightens the details of his clothes, loosens the knot of his tie, which literally begins to strangle him. Breathing becomes rhythmic, the timbre of the voice may change to lower, the vision becomes blurred, the pulse speeds up, blood pressure jumps. The peculiarities of behavior during this period are very difficult to hide from outside attention and even more so from the object of desire - the woman catches such signs immediately and consciously takes note.
The man can be aroused not only by direct manifestations of female sexuality, but also by obsessive thoughts of intimacy. The oncoming wave of passion catches the partner and his behavior changes depending on temperament and hormone levels. Common signs of erotic tension are the physiological indicators listed above, which in terms of symptoms resemble a state of stress. In addition to rapid breathing and heart rate, there are changes in voice and pressure, increased muscle tone, dilated pupils and increased salivation.
During an erection, a clear fluid is released from the penis, which does not contain sperm, but is a type of lubricant that allows you to penetrate a woman's vagina without much effort. It rises along the walls of the urethra and remains on the head of the penis in the form of a drop.
The fat comes from the Cooper's glands and contains various enzymes. This clear liquid has several functions:
- it removes residual urine in the urethra;
- the alkaline composition of the lubricant neutralizes the acidic environment of the woman's vagina;
- the viscous consistency of the lubricant allows you to prepare the urethra for semen;
- the lubricant allows you to perform friction during intercourse without injuring the delicate skin.
The amount of lubricant depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body and can vary from one small drop to 5 ml. The main purpose of separating this fluid is to provide a favorable environment for conceiving a child. Neutralization of the acidic atmosphere of the vagina is necessary to increase the survival rate of active sperm.
The main sign of a man's sexual arousal is an erection of the penis. Due to the increased blood supply to the penis, the corpora cavernosa are filled with plasma and the size of the organ increases significantly in length and width.
The change in the size of the penis in an upright position from the usual depends on the individual characteristics of the man's body, but it has been noticed that the small penis increases more noticeably than the more impressive organ.
The erect penis becomes hard and elastic, which ensures its penetration into the woman's vagina, the man at this time is completely ready for coitus and the passion flares up even more.
During penetration into a woman's bosom, the man's body is even more involved in the process of sexual intercourse. The pulse increases, muscle tension reaches its limit, the pressure rises even higher
and it becomes almost impossible to contain the passion.
The culmination of sexual intercourse for a man is ejaculation followed by orgasm. The pleasure lasts 5-10 seconds and occurs due to the contraction of the smooth muscles of the prostate gland as it passes through the urethra seminal fluid full of millions of sperm.
A man during orgasm can make sharp sounds and moans. Sperm volume depends on a person's constitution and the duration of abstinence.